Shared Life
The Marriage Ceremony
of
Name #1 Last #1 and Name #2 Last #2
on
Date
at
Place
INTRODUCTION
We are gathered here today to witness the formal joining of
Name #1 Last #1
and
Name #2 Last #2
in the legal state of Matrimony. You are to be married according to the orders, customs, and the authority granted by the government of the Province of Alberta.
Matrimony, as understood by us, is a state enriched by a long and honorable tradition of devotion. According to the law each participant is equal and supports the common rights of one another in the marriage.
Name #1 and Name #2,
You have come here together to share in the human institution of marriage—to share your lives, hopes and dreams, successes and failures, highs, lows, and everything in between.
Nothing is easier than saying words today, and nothing harder than living them every day after. What you promise today must be renewed and re-decided tomorrow. At the end of this ceremony, you will be legally married, but you must still decide, each day that stretches out before you, that you want to be together.
Real love is something beyond the warmth and glow, the excitement and romance of being deeply in love. It is caring as much about the welfare and happiness of your marriage partner as about your own. Real love is not total absorption in each other; it is looking outward in the same directions — together.
May you laugh together in joy, grieve together in sorrow, and grow together in love.
With this understanding
Name #1
and
Name #2
wish to be joined in marriage.
I now call upon you both in the presence of these witnesses, to repeat after me:
Name #1, please repeat after me:
I DO SOLEMNLY DECLARE
THAT I DO NOT KNOW OF ANY LAWFUL IMPEDIMENT
WHY I, Name #1 Last #1
MAY NOT BE JOINED IN MATRIMONY
TO Name #2
Name #2, please repeat after me:
I DO SOLEMNLY DECLARE
THAT I DO NOT KNOW OF ANY LAWFUL IMPEDIMENT
WHY I, Name #2 Last #2
MAY NOT BE JOINED IN MATRIMONY
TO Name #1 Last #1
As no impediment was declared or admitted, I require you to give answers to these questions:
Do you Name #1, promise to give to Name #2 the love of your person, the comfort of your companionship, and the patience of your understanding? Will you share with him equally the necessities of life as they may be earned or enjoyed by your self; and to respect the dignity of his own personal rights?
Answer: I DO
Do you Name #2, promise to give to Name #1 the love of your person, the comfort of your companionship, and the patience of your understanding? Will you share with her equally the necessities of life as they may be earned or enjoyed by your self; and to respect the dignity of her own personal rights?
Answer: I DO
THE MARRIAGE VOWS
Now would Name #1 and Name #2 please join hands, and let Name #1 repeat after me:
I CALL UPON THOSE PERSONS PRESENT
TO WITNESS THAT I, Name #1 Last #1
DO TAKE YOU, Name #2 Last #2
TO BE MY LAWFUL WEDDED HUSBAND
TO HAVE AND TO HOLD,
FROM THIS DAY FORWARD,
IN WHATEVER CIRCUMSTANCES OR EXPERIENCES
LIFE MAY
HOLD FOR US.
Let Name #2 repeat after me:
I CALL UPON THOSE PERSONS PRESENT
TO WITNESS THAT I, Name #2 Last #2
DO TAKE YOU, Name #1 Last #1
TO BE MY LAWFUL WEDDED WIFE
TO HAVE AND TO HOLD,
FROM THIS DAY FORWARD,
IN WHATEVER CIRCUMSTANCES OR EXPERIENCES
LIFE MAY
HOLD FOR US.
Name #1 and Name #2 will now read their vows to each other.
THE RING EXCHANGE
The wedding ring is a symbol of married love, the precious metals show that your love is your most precious possession, and the unending circle symbolizes that your love will never cease.
Having declared these marriage vows, let Name #1 place the ring on the third finger of Name #2’s left hand, repeating after me:
Name #2, I GIVE YOU THIS RING
THAT YOU MAY WEAR IT AS A LASTING REMINDER
OF OUR MARRIAGE VOWS
AND AS A SYMBOL
OF MY LOVE AND COMMITMENT TO YOU.
Let Name #2 place the ring on the third finger of Name #1’s left hand, repeating after me:
Name #1, I GIVE YOU THIS RING
THAT YOU MAY WEAR IT AS A LASTING REMINDER
OF OUR MARRIAGE VOWS
AND AS A SYMBOL
OF MY LOVE AND COMMITMENT TO YOU.
SIGNING THE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION
I will now ask Name #1 and Name #2 to join me, along with their witnesses to sign the Marriage Registration.
THE DECLARATION
Name #1 and Name #2, you have consented in marriage, and have declared your solemn intention before these witnesses and in my presence. You have exchanged these rings as the pledge of your love to each other; you have joined your hands to accept one another.
As you begin your marriage, let your home be a haven of peace in the midst of a busy and changing world; let your relationship be one of complete truth, love, and understanding. Respect the confidences of your partner in this marriage and consider that your marriage will yield what you give to it.
May you enjoy a long life, fulfill your hopes, feel content as you live day by day, and keep your promises to one another.
Now upon the authority vested in me by the Province of Alberta, I pronounce you legally married. You may seal your commitment with a kiss.